One of my favorite parables is the story of the light wolf and the dark wolf.  Most of us know the light wolf as those parts in the world and in ourselves that are kind, loving, peaceful and hopeful.  At the same time, the dark wolf represents all that is angry, fearful, greedy or hateful.  Which one is most prominent in our lives?  Simply—the one we feed.  In other words, whatever wolf we focus on the most—nourishing it with our attention, time, words and Facebook posts, that’s the one that grows and multiplies. The good news is of course that even if we realize we’ve been feeding the wrong wolf for far too long, it’s never too late to make our light wolf strong, healthy and the biggest part of our lives.

This parable came to my mind after finishing a new book by Mary Pipher called, Women Rowing North—Navigating Life’s Currents & Flourishing As We Age.  Some of us may remember Pipher as the author of Reviving Ophelia.  That book, written back in the 1990s, shared thoughts on the [Read more…]