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Honoring The Special Turning Points In Our Lives

Celebrating 200x300 Honoring The Special Turning Points In Our LivesLast week was my birthday.  Or I should say, one of my birthdays.  That’s because we all actually have many birth-days or major turning points during our lifetimes if we choose to remember and acknowledge them. Each one of these birthdays marks a significant turning point in our experience here on planet Earth.  And even though there are always a large number of major and minor days of significance for each of us, I believe my life contains four extra-ordinary days of beginning.   By sharing my special days with you, perhaps it will be easier for you to pinpoint and acknowledge similar events and birth-days in your life that you might want to honor and commemorate.

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Love to Travel—Love to Come Home

“Wherever you go, there you are.”  ~Jon Kabat-Zinn

       IMG 05741 244x300 Love to Travel—Love to Come Home     By now it is probably obvious that I love to travel.  But what you might not realize is that I also love coming home.  It wasn’t always that way.  Years ago I was constantly scheming up ways to get out of town.  Naturally, the more exotic the location the better—but I really wasn’t that picky.  Above all, I longed to escape to the open road and the infinite possibility that it held.  When I finally had to come home it was more like a punishment, or at least the penalty that must be paid until the next adventure came along.  Then somewhere along the line my thinking started changing—until now I am as happy returning home as I am packing my bags to go.  So what’s different?  Ultimately, I’ve come to believe that coming home after any length of time provides a huge mirror into a person’s life.  What we think is important, what we feel we have to be and do, and even who we think we are, are all reflected in the thoughts and images of what we must return to after we’ve been away.   Continue reading

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Rendering Unto Caesar and Other Thoughts During Tax Season

“Death, taxes and childbirth! There’s never any convenient time for any of them.”  ~Margaret Mitchell

Caesar 202x300 Rendering Unto Caesar and Other Thoughts During Tax SeasonI don’t often quote the Bible on this blog but the phrase “Render unto Caesar the things which are Caesar’s…” just seems appropriate this time of year.  If you, like Thom and I, are self-employed then this is the time of year when we gather together our income and expenses and prepare to do some rendering.  And while it is definitely not my favorite experience of year, it serves to remind me that we have a choice in how we view things (yes—even taxes!)  So here are a few thoughts on paying taxes and on other things that we might as well render while we are at it. Continue reading

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Midlife Minimalism—How Your Focus Changes & The Rewards Increase

“We get too soon old and too late smart.” ~Pennsylvania Dutch proverb

T K 300x300 Midlife Minimalism—How Your Focus Changes & The Rewards Increase I read a large number of online blogs and a big portion of them are into minimalism and simple living.  That’s wonderful because I believe there is richness to simple living that goes far beyond having less stuff. I also think that since I’ve been embracing it more and more, my life has become happier, less stressful and far more meaningful.  But something I’ve noticed is that the vast majority of blogs about minimalism are written primarily by those in their twenties to thirties.   And while I’m psyched to know that young adults are embracing the lifestyle, I also believe that maturity offers a perspective that should not be overlooked.  In fact, it is often those who have lived through multiple choices and experiences that have the most to offer others.  That’s why I thought a few perspectives from midlife should be included in any discussion about minimalism or simple living. Continue reading

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The Science of Friendship—And Can Hoarding Be A Good Thing?

“The only thing that really matters in life are your relationships to other people.” ~ George Vaillant

Friends 300x194 The Science of Friendship—And Can Hoarding Be A Good Thing?Those of us into simple living or minimalism knows that identifying and eliminating any thing superficial and nonessential in life is critical.  In fact, the television show “Hoarders” illustrates weekly the extreme burden that too much stuff can bring to a person’s life. But I’ve just come to realize that there is something that actually should be hoarded—and that “thing” is a friend.  Actually, an abundance of research now shows that finding, keeping and appreciating friends is good for our physical and mental health, good for our occupations, good for our creativity, will add years to our life, and enrich our experience in every way possible.  If we are willing to accept that as true, then understanding the science of friendship is one of the most important actions each of us can take to create a life of happiness, meaning and purpose during our time here on earth. Continue reading

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Celebrating Valentine’s Day or Just Another Consumer Holiday?

“…celebrating is one of the best ways to pause and remember this one, wild, precious and amazing life we have been given.”

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I know I have mentioned more than once that Thom and I have been married for 35 years.  That’s a lot of Valentine’s Days!  And in spite of what you may be thinking, Thom has always resisted them.  His argument is that Valentine’s Day—along with several other holidays throughout the year, were all manufactured to manipulate us into buying stuff.  I, on the other hand, see those very same holidays as a great excuse to CELEBRATE something special.  So keeping in mind that a major focus of SMART Living is to provide clarity and awareness about all things that affect our lives on a daily basis, how do you view celebrating holidays? Continue reading

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A Christmas Wish For Peace

Mattie Jimmy 300x225 A Christmas Wish For PeaceMerry Christmas Everyone!  Millions of people all over the world are celebrating Christmas this weekend.  The one gift we want to offer everyone is something that cannot be bought—only shared.  That wish is for peace.

And one of our favorite ways to share it is in the words of young Mattie Stepanek.  Mattie as you may remember was a young man who died in 2004 at the age of 14.  Mattie, who passed away from a rare genetic disease, managed to write six books of poetry in his young life and touched millions around the planet including Oprah Winfrey and his hero Jimmy Carter.  Continue reading

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The SMART Living 30-Day Gratitude Challenge 2012–30 Days of Quotes and Gratitude

Here are all quotes used during our SMART Living 30-Day Gratitude Challenge.   For a quick pick-me-up or to remember that we all have lots to be grateful for, just read through these every now and then. 

November 30           “We think we have to do something to be grateful or something has to be done in order for us to be grateful, when gratitude is a state of being.”  ~ Iyanla Vanzant  Continue reading

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Lessons From Gratitude–Day 22 of the SMART Living 30-Day Gratitude Challenge

Baja Surf Light 1 300x225 Lessons From Gratitude  Day 22 of the SMART Living 30 Day Gratitude ChallengeAt the beginning of November I challenged myself to a 30-Day Gratitude Challenge.  I knew that it would add extra work to my already hectic schedule.  But I also knew that the timing was good.  November is one of my favorite months AND Thanksgiving was right around the corner.  Plus, everywhere I went people were talking about the coming U.S. elections.  And regardless of who they hoped would win—there seemed to be a lot of fear, anger and worry associated with the process.  Hurricane Sandy was also looming on the horizon. I knew I needed to take the focus off those things outside myself and place them firmly on the good that I have in my day-to-day life.  Hence, the gratitude challenge was born. Continue reading

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Simple Living vs. Minimalism—What’s the Difference & Which Are You?

KLOE KG 24 300x200 Simple Living vs. Minimalism—What’s the Difference & Which Are You?With all the talk of minimalism and simple living on the Internet these days I am still constantly surprised to see how many interpretations there are.  I’m also seeing lots of confusion.  I think that’s because most people are attracted to certain people who are writing about the subjects without concern about what either of those labels really mean.  And while I’ve stated numerous times that I don’t believe myself to be an “expert,” I do feel the topic is not only valuable—but deserves explanation and exploration.  For if SMART Living 365 is a way to fill our lives with meaning, purpose and happiness, then knowing about ideas that help that manifest is important to the journey. Continue reading

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